Sunday, December 22, 2024

Happy Pre-Spring*!




Other people may call it Winter. However I have renamed the seasons to accommodate my dislike for cold weather and snow and my love for mild temperatures and budding flowers.



Pre-Spring is the season which begins on December 21. Sure, there are some holidays in there. But wouldn't it be easier to go shopping for presents and attend parties when you don't have to worry about falling on a patch of hidden ice?

It is followed by Early Spring, which comprises the days between March 1 and March 20.

Spring, the most glorious season, is next, from March 21 to June 20.   

Summer lasts from June 21 to September 20.

Fall follows, between September 21 to the beginning of Pre-Spring.




Don't mind me. I think I'll look at photos of tulips and remember that today, December 22, is when the days start to get longer.



Wednesday, August 28, 2024

Strangers and their germs

Strangers and their germs

Exchanging sneezes

Whether day or night

Dangerous breezes

We'll be sharing germs before the night is through.


Wafting through the air

Without a filter

Fills me full of dread

I feel off-kilter

Danger in the air, because you lack a mask.


Covid isn't gone

Though you pretend it

It's been with us all along

You'll just extend it

So please just accept the facts

Little did you know

Virus just a cough away

So please please please just go away, and


Spleenless as I am

I'm not just selfish

Breathing in your air's

Like rotting shellfish

Virus in the air

Will make me tear my hair


Safe is just a mask away

A simple little task away


Virus in the air 

Will make me tear my hair.


Do be do be do...








Thursday, August 22, 2024

Tuesday, August 13, 2024

The Art of Naming



Whether you're deciding on a book title or cover, an author name, a store name,  a logo design, or even a child, 

Don't make it:


1. Don't make it unpronouncable. (applies to all of these). 

2. Don't make it indecipherable.

(logo and store name) For a while I was sure the clothing store in the mall was named "Crackpot." It was really "Jackpot." The store didn't last six months. Some graphic artist's ego got in the way of good business sense.

(book title and book cover) If the customer can't easily distinguish what the title is, they can't ask for it. Unless the author is very well known, the title on the cover should be larger than the author's name. Usually we don't have much or any say in the book cover design. But if we do, we should comment tactfully if something doesn't work.

3. Don't make it so long that a customer can't accurately remember it.

4. In the case of a child's name, I'm so grateful my parents used the first initial of my late aunt's name and not her exact name. I would have changed it as soon as I was legally able to do so. Names go out of style or can be identified with someone unsavoury.

5. Also, for a child's name, use sensitivity.  Don't make your child the object of ridicule at school before opening his or her mouth.

What were the parents of "Inertia" thinking?! (I'm not making that up.) Humphrey Bogart had to learn to fight early.


Do make the name:

- Memorable if possible. Don't follow trends.

- Unique, but don't sacrifice logic, readability, and ease of pronounciation

- Use your own author name if you like. But, again, consider shortening it to an easier pen name. It needs to fit comfortably on the book spine in a big enough typeface to be legible. You don't really need all those middle names. It's a book, not a passport. Sometimes an initial, or nothing, is better.

- When in doubt, err on the side of simplicity.





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Wednesday, July 31, 2024

How to Succeed at...

 ...almost anything



Finding the perfect spouse

1. Go on a blind date in which the person introducing you knows you only superficially and mistakenly attributes your parents' interests to you. (M)

2. Reveal your family's darkest secret on that first date, thereby potentially scaring away your date. (me)

3. Give your date a humour challenge. (me)

4. Be funny. (M)

5. Be lucky, despite all of the above.


Winning at horse races

1. Decide you and your three accomplices will only bet to a certain limit and stop when you've lost that amount.

2. Whimsically choose a horse because you like his or her name.

3. Make a mistake when betting. Instead of choosing only one of those whimsically-named horses to win ($2 bet), choose two horses to win and place ($5 bet). Both horses happen to be long shots. When you win on this mistake, because it was a long shot, you'll make much more than you would have if you'd proofread better.

4. Stop betting when you've lost the amount in #1 and split your winnings, laughing hysterically.


Winning at greyhound races (aka, My Mother's Method)

1. Observe the dogs before the race. 

2. Bet on the one who has decided to relieve himself before the race. He won't have to worry about that and will run faster as a result.

3. Collect your winnings. (Thanks, Gentleman Jim!)


Finding potential dates or breaking ice with strangers


1. Acquire an adorable puppy and take it for walks. You will never lack for potential dates (even if you are married and uninterested in dating). Even your dog will make play dates for the dog park. You'll meet all your neighbours.



You're welcome.




Tuesday, April 9, 2024

"May Be More Wondered At..."

 



Yesterday's total solar eclipse reminded me of Shakespeare's Henry IV, Part 1:


Yet herein will I imitate the sun

Who doth permit the base contagious clouds

To smother up his beauty from the world

That, when he please again to be himself,

Being wanted, he may be more wondered at

By breaking through the foul and ugly mists

Of vapours that did seem to strangle him.


Toronto got only 99.9% totality and the sun was mostly playing peek-a-boo with the clouds.

We studied the exact location of the sun at 2 pm, 3 pm, and 4:30 pm on Sunday which, ironically, was cloudless and bright to see whether we could just look out the window at the condo. Going out to the terrace would have been ideal, but it's now inaccessible because I can't schlep a walker over the steps and Michael's mobility isn't up to doing the steps without at least a railing. Because the sun was so high in the sky at those times, we needed an unobstructed view.

So we went to the nearby mall's parking lot, facing south and west. Lots of other people had the same idea. But, mostly, the "base contagious clouds" obstructed our view.

The sky looked as if there was a thunder storm on the way and the parking lot's automatic lights turned on because it was so dark. We were wearing jackets but noticed a chill in the air. For a few seconds the clouds parted and I glimpsed the sun through my eclipse glasses, but that was it.

Some places in downtown Toronto got to see the show. Here are some photos from CP24 (Canadian tv news channel):

https://www.cp24.com/photo-galleries/solar-eclipse-in-ontario-1.6837669





Saturday, April 6, 2024

How to Multi-task Successfully

I thought I was no good at multi-tasking until last Thursday morning, when I had to 

keep one eye on my cellphone to read texts from the Instacart deliverer,

keep one eye on my landline to answer an important phone call, and

keep one eye on the kettle, waiting for it to boil so I could finish making breakfast.